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expectation & goals

U to Shirasagi by Utamaro Kitagawa (1753-1806); original from Library of Congress
Buddhist meditation | expectation & goals | progress in meditation

it’s now or never

ByTom Davidson-Marx Posted on08/06/202307/17/2024 07/17/2024

Mindfulness loosens the “interminable chain of longing” as Robert Frost puts it, so I have half a chance of living this moment…

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Vanity Sounds the Horn and Ignorance Unleashes the Hounds Overconfidence, Rashness and Desire (from The Hunt of the Frail Stag)
daily practice | expectation & goals

don’t let the mind become a lonely hunter

ByTom Davidson-Marx Posted on07/06/202307/17/2024 07/17/2024

You have all you need. The bounty is already laid out at your doorstep. (The title here steals from Carson McCuller’s remarkable…

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Buddhist insight meditation in Honolulu
daily practice | expectation & goals

a contemplative life

ByTom Davidson-Marx Posted on04/20/202307/17/2024 07/17/2024

What makes the difference in the contemplative life are the qualities of heart we bring to our everyday experiences. When asked the…

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As I contemplate the latest news about the the situation in Gaza, I wonder how is meditation in a time of war relevant.
expectation & goals | the present moment | U Tejaniya

on having no goals

ByTom Davidson-Marx Posted on05/03/202207/22/2024 07/22/2024

As you set out on your meditation journey- avoid aggressive self-improvement. There isn’t anything to improve; the present moment is just fine…

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let go of expectations
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let go of expectations

ByTom Davidson-Marx Posted on04/17/202206/02/2024 06/02/2024

As we let go of expectations in our mindfulness practice, it generalizes in our life-we are more present and responsive, and less…

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expectation & goals

expectation

ByTom Davidson-Marx Posted on06/01/201709/10/2023 09/10/2023

Mindfulness meditation also goes by the moniker Vipassana, or insight meditation. When I mentioned this in our weekly classes some years ago,…

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A mind unruffled by the vagaries of fortune, from sorrow freed, from disturbing emotions cleansed, from fear liberated, this is the greatest blessing.

~The Buddha (Mangala Sutta)

When you find your place where you actually are, practice occurs. When you find your way at this moment, practice occurs. Here is the place. Here the way unfolds.

Dogen, 1200 – 1253, Genjōkōan: Actualizaing the Fundamental Point

We can always imagine more perfect conditions. But it's not our task to create ideals, but to learn from the world as it is. For the awakening of the heart, conditions are always good enough.

Ajahn Sumedho

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